Posted in May 2008

In keeping with the domain name…

I am so fickle! I hate it. I need to just not tell people when I have made big life decisions because it’s probably annoying to everybody to switch things up. I am re-considering living in LA next year. Living in LB will at most save just over $100 a month. Not that those hundred bucks don’t count, because they certainly do, but so does my sanity.

The thought of the drive, people’s grimacing faces when I tell them of my upcoming commuter lifestyle, rising gas prices, low rent, and all of the fun I have been having in LA recently make this seem more appealing. It’s good fun too, not like… unproductive, partying, “you’re gonna regret this later” fun like what has been had in the past. Good meaningful fun that is worth continuing to enjoy. GAH. I love Long Beach so so so so much, but nothing has been keeping me from it these past 2 years, so that should not change yet.

The thunderstorm today was amazing. It came and went super fast, but it was a welcome surprise!

Catalyst was really good for me this week, as it was last week. I really like the series they’re doing to close out the year. Refocusing on Jesus as my center. Not relying on outside sources (while they certainly are great!) as my sole source of happiness. Looking back to my entries from a few weeks ago, as well as thinking back on thoughts that went unposted, I will be bound to be disappointed if I put my hope under other people’s control. Not because other people don’t care or are horrible, but because… we’re human. I have seen plenty times just this week… hell, even just today that I certainly have my shortcomings and failures in creating a sense of happiness for other people. I wish it weren’t the case, and I am constantly hoping to improve my friendships, but I will always have my mess ups. My heart aches over relationships that need work, reconciliation. While the plan is still to aim for this… I need to not ground my happiness in the hope that those friendships will be redeemed and restored.

The flurry of graduation and the end of school is here as I order tickets (concert and graduations), yearbook, alumni memberships, cap/gown, and I cannot believe it is here. It is exciting, and yet I feel numb to it at the same time. Would it be a bigger deal if I wasn’t coming back for more in the Fall? Probably. But that’s not really important now.
Life seems to change over Sumer breaks. This Summer I will gain a sister and then she and my brother will be picking up and going to the East Coast. At a Dresden Dolls concert last night (what a freak show!) with both of them, it was strange to think that they won’t be only a 2 hour drive away in a few months, but a cross country plane trip. It’s not to say that we all see each other every week or even every month, but it’s still a strange thought. While everybody in Guatemala continues to be so closely knit, family up here in U.S. continues to stretch and spread out. I mean, it’s not something that I am so so so sad about, it’s just interesting to me. In some way. I don’t know.

Lots is happening in this tiny life of mine. Lots to be happy about, lots to anticipate, lots to work on, and lots to be thankful for. Should be interesting to see where things go.

After…

Hooray for clarity!

And now…

…Eeee clarity, be my friend!

from a basement on a hill

memory lane

“But isolation pushes you ‘till every muscle aches
down the only road it ever takes
but everybody’s scared of this place
they’re staying away
your little house on memory lane” – E.S.

I’m not sure when it happened or what I actually lost, but I know that I miss what I once had. I had been sad to be leaving this undergrad life because it was so great, but now I am leaving it on a strange note and with a sour taste in my mouth. Unsure of what lies ahead, I am grateful for the few who are carrying me along and just hope I can count on those who I think I believe in.

Embargo!

I stopped importing my blog posts on facebook and deleted my old ones off of it. I liked doing that when my friends list consisted of fewer than 50 friends who I actually talk with a lot, but once we start adding everybody… the 100 other people I went to China with, people whom I’ve only met once or twice, a few T.A.’s, and other people I do not really know, I guess its just as well to stop importing. I mean, this is still a public blog, and I am happy to have any of the aforementioned people read the (random and often unimportant) things I have to say, but I also have no problem with people having to remember my url or going through the trouble of clicking a link in order to do so. I also have no problem with having so many “friends” on facebook. It serves its purpose.

Anyway. Boring post, my apologies. I can make it more boring.

I took my last undergraduate midterm (Shakespeare) this week. Hurrah!

I want a new layout. Maybe I will try to work on it soon. That is, if I decide to keep paying for this webspace for much longer! We shall see!

Edit: photoshop is all downloaded and running. Now, if only I could remember my ftp information… we’d have a party going. 

[not overly dramatic] Depression…

…of the economic sort. Depending on who you ask, I might be starting to freak out a bit too late or a bit prematurely, but yes, I am freaked out about the ecomomy. In somewhat related news, I am also worried about my own economic state, more so than ever before. Just thought I would share. I could elaborate more but honestly… in terms of the country’s economy I obviously should not be any body’s source of information, and in terms of my own, there is no need to bore anybody with details of my credit cards, student loans, and unreliable car.
Apart from that, I had a lovely weekend that is making me want to clutch on even tighter to my last few weeks of undergrad life… graduation is next month and I am still not entirely sure how I feel about that! Excited, to be sure, but there are a few things that I wish could remain the same for a while longer. I only hope that in a few years, I can look back at these weeks and laugh at my worries that I have seen the best of my times.
As other issues in my life continue to be unfortunate realities, however, I am ready for certain changes to take place. The only problem is that there are only a few of those changes that are actually in my control, while most of them are in the hands of others, and some of them are completely out of human control.

The end.

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